Review by Chairman, Gold Star Family Committee – Richard Stobbs

Commander Baker,

Recently I picked up Restless Hearts to scan thru it ….but could not put it down. The story is very innovative in it’s approach to the loss and sacrifice of the Families of the Fallen.

Your perspective and sensitivity to “what might have happened” is unique and powerful. I was immediately enchanted and immersed in the journey. The depth and description of the characters, their thoughts and their values is overwhelming.

Near the end, the theme hit me like a thunderbolt with Andrew’s story …I married a Vietnam Gold Star Widow with a five year old daughter. Sgt. Gary V. Clark died in combat support on December 17, 1969, the funeral was December 26, 1969, and Tina Jo was born December 29, 1969 ….never to see her father.

One of the proudest days of my life was walking Tina Jo down the aisle on her wedding day, all the time thinking I wish her real father was present for this sacred task.

Tina Jo knew about her father’s sacrifice, and I know she is proud of her heritage.
Restless Hearts reminded me what a sacred privilege it was to raise that little five year old girl.

Commander Baker, I salute you for you deep thoughts and reflections, creating this powerful story and keeping the memories of our fallen warriors and their families alive and honored. Restless Hearts is priceless!

Richard “Dick” Stobbs

Richard D. Stobbs, MSA, RA
Chairman, Gold Star Family Committee